Thursday, 21 December 2023

The sacking of Dr Malcolm Love (1925 – 2006) from the post of choirmaster at St Devenick’s church, Bieldside and the origin of the Deeside Choristers

Introduction to Dr Malcolm Love.

Robert Malcolm Love, usually called “Malcolm”, was born in West Derby, an affluent suburb of Liverpool, on 30th March 1927 to Richard Archibald Love, a corn broker, and his wife.  Malcolm was their only son.  His paternal grandfather was a vicar, and the Loves were a religious family.  By 1939, but probably much earlier, Malcolm had become a pupil at the Terra Nova preparatory school which had just relocated in that year to a new site in extensive grounds on the edge of Congleton, Cheshire.  It is likely that Malcolm Love moved on from Terra Nova in about 1940 when he reached the age of 13.  His new place of education was the School of English Church Music, which had been established by Sir Sydney Nicholson in 1929 at Buller’s Wood, Chislehurst.  Here Malcolm said, “he learned the rudiments of choir training”.  In 1945 the SECM became the Royal School of Church Music and relocated to Canterbury Cathedral.  Dr Love also said that he attended the RSCM, so possibly he was a pupil in 1945 after the change of name and the move to the ecclesiastical capital of the world-wide Anglican community.  No detail has been uncovered about Malcolm Love’s academic education, though after secondary school he is presumed to have attended university and to have studied either chemistry or biochemistry, possibly the former, since he would later describe his scientific research work as lying in the realm of “chemical biology”.  With such a school education, it is not surprising that Malcolm Love would, in his adult life wish to continue with his involvement in the most sophisticated and traditional Anglican musical genre, as well as pursuing a career in science.   

In July 1951, when Malcolm was 24, he married Edith Muriel Hodson the only daughter of Mr and Mrs Frank Hodson of Aintree, a suburb of Liverpool.  The marriage took place at Brook Road Methodist Church, Urmston, near Manchester.  By the following year, the Loves had moved to Aberdeen, and it is likely that Malcolm had been employed by the Torry Research Station, where he would remain for the rest of his professional life.  This institute had been established in 1929 and was concerned with the storage and preservation of caught fish, and the promotion of unwanted species for use in the human diet.  Malcolm’s scientific career was clearly a successful one.  In 1968 he was one of 38 Government scientists who received a merit promotion to a grade equivalent to a professor or reader in a university.  He authored many scientific papers and was awarded the degree of DSc (Doctor of Science) for his published work.  Malcolm Love was also the author of several books, including “The Chemical Biology of Fishes”, which was published in 1970.  When conferences of experts on food preservation were sponsored in Aberdeen by the research station, Malcolm Love was an inevitable speaker.  One foreign mark of scientific recognition awarded to Dr Love was his appointment as a foreign member of the National Academy of Sciences of Ukraine (Hydrobiology).

Thus, Malcolm Love was both an expert on the chemistry of fish storage and preservation and an expert on church music in the high Anglican tradition.  After his relocation to Aberdeen, he immediately became involved in the city’s active classical music scene and came under the influence of Mr Willan Swainson.  Swainson had arrived in Aberdeen in 1916 as organist and choirmaster at Queen’s Cross Church.  In 1925 he was appointed as part-time lecturer in music in the university, having played a prominent civic role as a conductor, organist and choir master.  Swainson was later appointed director of music at the university and remained in that post until 1956.  Although the dates are not known, Malcolm Love studied voice production under the prolific Swainson. 


Willan Swainson.

The Love family initially lived at Chattan Place in the city but by 1954 when their first son was born, they had moved to 117 Craigton Road, Braeside on the western edge of Aberdeen.  By 1976, the family had moved further out from the city along the same road to East Silverburn, Kingswells.  Initially, Malcolm Love appears to have worshipped at St Andrew’s Episcopal Cathedral in King Street and there, in 1965, he met Richard Weddel.  Both were then members of the St Andrew’s choir and would later work together, Richard as the organist and Malcolm as the choirmaster, at St Devenick’s church in Bieldside.  


Saint Devenick's Church, Bieldside.

 The Reverend Kenneth Davidson Gordon (1935 – 2021).

St Devenick, after whom the Bieldside church is named, was a rather obscure saint but a friend of the more famous St Machar, an Irish priest who arrived at Iona with St Columba and who later preached to the Picts of Aberdeenshire.  The congregation first met in a loft at Bieldside Farm in 1880 but by 1902 sufficient funds had been raised to construct the present church building.  Kenneth Davidson Gordon was born in Edinburgh in 1935.  His secondary education was at George Heriot’s School, followed by a degree at Edinburgh University from where he graduated in 1957.  Subsequently, he trained for the Anglican ministry and after a number of junior positions in England and Scotland, Kenneth was appointed rector of St Devenick’s church, Bieldside in 1971, moving to the manse at 2 Bailieswells Road with his wife Edith Jessica.  The couple had married in England in 1964.  He was further appointed as a canon of St Andrew’s Cathedral, Aberdeen in 1981.  Gordon’s ministry in Bieldside ended in 2001.  Thus, the arrival of the two main players in the drama which is about to be revealed may well have arrived at St Devenick’s church at about the same time.

Canon Kenneth Gordon.

The St Devenick’s church choir.

The original St Devenick’s church choir was not the creation of Malcolm Love, though he was conducting the choir at St Devenick's by at least summer 1973.  The choir had existed since at least December 1972, when it performed at the St Nicholas Festival in Aberdeen, though it does not appear to have been very active outside the confines of services at its home place of worship.  In 1973, according to the memory of one 10-year-old recruit, the choir had between 20 and 30 members, including a few adults.  According to the sleeve notes on the LP record by the Choir of St Devenicks, published in September 1981, "The decision to try to create a working Anglican choir from very small beginnings was taken at the end of 1975, as a gesture of defiance at the trend towards emptying churches and vanishing choirs.  Everyone warned that choirboys were now almost impossible to recruit, and that men who could both sing and read music had almost disappeared from the scene".  It is presumed that Malcolm Love, given his traditional education in church music, was the moving influence in this development.  But, as the record sleeve notes further state, St Devenick’s, Bieldside, had a number of disadvantages for developing the grand project gestating inside Malcolm Love’s head.  The church had no choir school (there were 40 in England but only one in Scotland) to recruit and train new choristers, there was no regular income and there were no endowments to nourish the start-up and meet the recurrent costs of an ambitious choir.  Further, the church only accommodated 260 worshippers, it had deadening acoustics, and the organ was small and limited.  But these impediments did not dampen the enthusiasm of the charismatic Malcolm Love.

Malcolm Love later admitted that in 1975 the choir could not sing properly, and it lacked men.  Initially the only three adult male members were Richard Weddle, Mr Chew the organist and Malcolm Love himself.  Also at the beginning, Malcolm struggled to recruit and retain boy trebles.  But his ambition (he said that in 1975 his goal was to make the choir famous) and unbounded enthusiasm overcame these early impediments.  Choirboys were paid a small stipend, though this stopped in 1983.  Malcolm Love always sought to make choir practice and trips away from Bieldside fun for the boys with activities other than singing.  By mid-1980, the local Aberdeen newspapers were starting to notice the existence of the St Devenick’s choir and their performances both in the Aberdeen area and further afield.  In July of that year The Scotsman noted that the programme for St Giles Cathedral summer recitals included, “Wed 9th July 1980 3pm.  Choir of St Devenick’s Aberdeen.  Music by Byrd, Handel, Stanford, Vaughan Williams”.  Although he was not mentioned by name, Malcolm Love surely was both the author and the conductor of this programme?  Further prominence for the choir came from an appearance on Grampian TV in December of the same year when a programme called “Four Faces of Christ” appeared with illustrations of its themes provided by the St Devenick’s choir “conducted by Dr Malcolm Love”.

The Saint Devenick's Church boys' choir 1981.
Malcolm Love - back row extreme right.
Iain Marr - second back row, centre left with beard.


Up to this point, the Bieldside choir had been for membership by boys only, but that deficit was addressed in 1980 by the formation of a girls’ choir, called St Cecilia’s, with Dr Iain Marr (another chemist) and a member of the male choir as its conductor.  Although it never attained the numbers of the boys’ and men’s choir, St Cecilia’s was still of a significant size, and it too achieved local prominence with the quality of its performances.  At the Aberdeen and North-East Music Festival, held in June 1983, the St Cecilia choir won the Paterson gold medal for the best female choir aged 18 and under.  Indeed, most of the St Cecilia girls were well under this upper age limit.  By 1985 the girls’ choir had its own newsletter.

The growth of the choir through its expanding programme of activities could surely not have been reached without an input of resource.  Although it was not publicly known at the time, a fund had been raised to support the St Devenick’s choir which had a balance of about £5,500 by 1983.  A substantial part of that sum appears to have been a donation by Malcolm Love himself.

The profile of the choir continued to rise during the following year.  A magazine for and about the choir “Ruff Stuff” started appearing and the singers based in Bieldside attracted bookings to perform at weddings.  Summer tours and camps were introduced.  By the time of the production of their LP record, the choir had sung in York Minster, Beverley Minster, Pluscarden Abbey and St Andrew’s Cathedral, Aberdeen.  The record sleeve sported a photograph of the boys and men of the choir, with red gowns and white ruffs.  By that time the membership had grown to over 50.  Surely, none of this rise to prominence would have happened without the drive, inspiration and musical acumen of the choir’s conductor.  The following year, 1982, saw a continuation of this upward trend and the singers appeared in further churches around Aberdeen which either did not possess choirs or whose local choral efforts were minimal, including St Peter’s Episcopal Church, Torry and a joint evensong involving four local Episcopal churches, with the singing led by the choir of St Devenick’s.  In mid-November, the choristers put on a concert in St Mary’s Church, Carden Place, Aberdeen.  Thus, the choir, although based on St Devenick’s in Bieldside was being welcomed in a significant number of Episcopal churches throughout Aberdeen.  Further, its existence and rise to prominence was a matter of great pride to most of the congregation and to the parents of the choristers who formed a strong supportive network, partly overlapping with church members.  Greater success, bringing further kudos to this small suburban church, seemed inevitable.  What could possibly go wrong?


Saint Devenick's Choir magazine.

 

The sacking of Malcolm Love.

In the 11 March 1983 edition of the Aberdeen Evening Express a major development in the internal affairs of St Devenick’s Church, Bieldside was reported to the public.  Dr Malcolm Love, choirmaster of the St Devenick’s Choir had been dismissed.  The news of this dramatic development burst like a fiery munition over Aberdeen.  The story and its aftermath would feature in the local press, not just for days and weeks, but for months and years to come.  Why had this driving force behind the choir, which had attracted so many young people to the church and engendered so much pride and praise in the community, been removed from office?  Had he been guilty of some unspeakable offence which made his removal both necessary and inevitable?  Surely the truth would out?  Not so.  No valid reason was given by the officials at St Devenick’s for Malcolm Love’s dismissal, either at the time or since, which left Malcolm’s reputation open to question for many months.  It seems likely that a fundamental contributory factor was actually stated by Iain Marr, who told a representative of the Evening Express at this time that there had been a “serious personality conflict”, which had been simmering below the surface for some months.  It appeared that Malcolm Love and Canon Kenneth Gordon could not get along together.

“One person closely involved with the choir” revealed that there had been an unpublicised meeting involving the choirmaster, the two clergy and two churchwardens on 21 December 1982, when Malcolm Love was “grilled” on several subjects, including his attitude to church policy.  Basically, he was put on notice.  The managerial hierarchy was not happy with the high church, traditional musical direction that the choir was following, which clashed with its own view (ie that of Canon Gordon) who wanted to see a more informal, less traditional style of worship evolve at his charge.  If the choir did not change direction, then it would be “without a choirmaster”.  Subsequently, Malcolm Love would claim that “The rector has not always welcomed the choir’s role in divine service, and gradually the choir’s contribution to the worship has grown less”.

It later emerged that Malcolm Love had tape recorded the proceedings of the 21 December meeting surreptitiously.  This was certainly an underhand act, though one he subsequently sought to justify by stating that he lacked trust in the openness, and perhaps even the veracity of his inquisitors.  “No minutes were kept, the rest of the vestry did not know in advance that such a meeting was to be held, and since the rector had told me that the organist was not to be present, and had refused to tell me the agenda, I feared that the meeting, or my response to it, might be misrepresented.  Though nobody at the meeting knew I was taping it, I subsequently made no secret of what I had done.  I did it for my own protection”.  There was no supporter of Malcolm and the choir present at the meeting with the church representatives to witness what was said.  Without such independent corroboration and/or agreed minutes of the meeting, any account that Malcolm gave subsequently would have been deniable by the others who were present.  Malcolm Love claimed subsequently that at the meeting he had been conciliatory.  “Some points raised were unexceptionable but to comply totally would have ruined eight years of work”.  “I was however, prepared to solve the problems in ways that would have satisfied everybody and would not have caused decline”.

Malcolm Love also described the letter sent to him following the meeting on 21 December 1982 as “the rudest letter I have ever received”.  He sought the help of congregation members to get the letter withdrawn, another crime in the eyes of the church authorities, presumably because it was seen as a challenge to church authority.  It was also claimed that he had used material from his tape recording in a statement he sent to the congregation and that this was “contrary to the stated wish of the bishop”.  The issue of the tape recording clearly rankled with Love’s opponents though he denied that he had disobeyed the bishop.  “The bishop had accepted it had to go out.  At the bishop’s request it first went to the vestry as constituted prior to the sacking, then with his permission to choir parents and only then to the rest of the congregation “when his efforts on our behalf had met with a blank refusal from the vestry”.  Justifying his fight back, Malcolm Love asserted that “Anyone defamed in this country has the right of reply”.

 

A major rebellion and a split in the congregation.     

Following the sacking, there was immediate and substantial collateral damage inflicted on the church and its congregation by the uncompromising approach of Kenneth Gordon.  Four members of the St Devenick’s vestry, members of the congregation elected as its representatives in matters relating to church policy, immediately resigned and were followed by five further St Devenick’s officials within days, including the organist (Richard Weddel), the treasurer, the secretary, the lay representative and Dr Iain Marr.  A large part of the congregation, too, was upset, so much so that during the next Sunday service after his dismissal, Malcolm Love found it necessary to leave the building, apparently in distress, and at the end of worship, some attendees declined to shake the hand of the rector at the church door, making clear their unhappiness with his actions.  The following day, a meeting was held of both adult singers and parents of the boys and girls at which overwhelming support was expressed for the former choirmaster.    

This reaction to his authoritarian style did not cause the rector to re-evaluate his strategy.  In January 1983, the intransigent Canon Gordon sent a letter to the former choirmaster with his requirements, if the two were to co-exist at St Devenick’s.  The choir must become smaller, and all recruitment immediately stopped, the choir fund was to become the property of the church and the permission of the vestry would be required before Dr Love could have access to it.  In effect, Malcolm Love was being required to dismantle his creation and reform it as a small unit dedicated to supporting worship in St Devenick’s, turning its back on aspirations to sing complex works by the great masters of choral and church music.  After all the hard work and dedication, by adults and boys alike, no one associated with the choir could agree to reformation and decline.  The choir would stay in existence, pursuing its aim of yet higher musical achievement.  Although hoping for reconciliation and return, it would, if necessary, break away from St Devenick’s church and become independent, taking responsibility for its own direction and fate.  But there was no desire to sever its links to the Episcopal movement and tradition.  If St Devenick’s would not accommodate them, other churches within the Episcopal family probably would, not to mention the welcome they might receive from other Christian faiths.

 

Hopes for reconciliation and compromise.

Suddenly, everyone associated with St Devenick’s realised that their church community had been split from end to end and entrenched positions adopted by the protagonists.  People on both sides of the divide hoped that accommodation and compromise might still be possible but that to achieve reconciliation a period of silence and reflection would be needed.  There were calls for an end to the public discussion of the dispute.  Vestry member Michael Partridge said: “I wish everybody would say nothing”.  A reporter called at Malcolm Love’s home and a lady (probably Muriel Love, Malcolm’s wife) said, “At this stage there is no comment.  It’s not worth bothering about”.  Canon Gordon, too, was tight-lipped, “No comment.  I am sorry”.  An appeal was made to the Diocesan Bishop, Fred Darwent, to intervene and it appears that he spoke to both sides privately, though his only public comment at this delicate stage was that he was “dealing with an internal matter”.    

Not all followed this path of self-restraint.  In March of 1983, the Evening Express reported comments by “a leading member of the congregation” who had held membership for 30 years.  “My husband and I know of a number of families who have left the church and have cancelled their covenants and tithes.  If the rector remains, the membership will continue to drop.  He said that we were no longer to say the Lord’s Prayer and when some members of the congregation objected, he said that if we didn’t follow him, it showed how well the devil had been doing his work”.  Canon Gordon was “far too intense and tried to impose his will on others”.  These opinions were put to the canon, but he declined the opportunity to respond.  The comments are very informative because they illustrate that the cause of the split in St Devenick’s church community did not just centre of the choirmaster and his numerous charges but also related to fundamental issues concerning the form and style of worship too.

At some stage early in the dispute, Canon Kenneth Gordon had written to the congregational parents of choir members telling them that not only had Malcolm Love been sacked but the choir had also been disbanded.  Boys who had been members of the choir could in future sit with the congregation.  This must have appeared as a poor substitute for this gang of lads who, while relishing the challenge of singing complex choral works, also looked forward to the rough and tumble of horsing around with their mates.

 

The Deeside Choristers are born.

On Monday 14 March 1983, there was another meeting of singers and parents which confirmed that a new choir, to be called “The Deeside Choristers” with the same membership as its predecessor had been formed and which would be totally independent of St Devenick’s church.  After the meeting, Malcolm Love confirmed that rehearsals would resume the following Thursday, that the planned tour of Ripon Cathedral and Hexham Abbey in summer of that year would go ahead and that invitations had already been received by the choir to sing locally.  “We are determined to carry on”, he said.  “St Devenick’s choir must not be allowed to die”.  Well, in truth, it was already dead, having been summarily terminated.  But, like the phoenix, it would arise from the ashes of its progenitor.  At this stage, the exiles still hoped for a reconciliation but had recognised that, while they hoped for the best, they must plan for the worst.

 

Positions harden and Dr Iain Marr leaves the congregation.

There was a congregational meeting held on Monday 30 May 1983 to consider its collective attitude to the reinstatement of Dr Love and the return of the choir to the St Devenick’s fold. Before the meeting could begin, an attempt was made to remove Dr Iain Marr from the meeting.  Although he had been a member of the choir for eight years and had formed the girls’ choir and acted as its conductor for the past three years, he was not a communicant and that was the gripe of some of those present.  He refused to leave the meeting without a vote of those present supporting such a move but accepted that he could not speak or vote.   After a four-hour debate, during which the rector was asked four times to state the reasons for Dr Love’s dismissal but declined to reveal that information, a motion was passed by 85 votes to 59 calling for the erstwhile choirmaster to be invited back to his previous post.  While this was a substantial majority in favour of reinstatement it also demonstrated that there was a significant minority who did not support the move, perhaps because they agreed with their rector, or because they felt that their first loyalty must be to him.  In any case, the Episcopal church was not a democratic organisation but a consultative one, where the masses would be asked for their opinion, but that their view could be disregarded if the hierarchy felt so inclined.  In this case the decision on reinstatement rested, not with the congregation but with the vestry and the clergy, which group was due to meet on Monday 13 June.  When it did meet, in its usual covert fashion, it considered offering Dr Love his job back, took a decision, prepared a statement and then withheld it until Kenneth Gordon had met with Bishop Fred Darwent.  When the decision became public, it was in the negative and the claim was made that the decision had followed “12 months of difficulty concerning the function of the choir and the authority of the clergy and vestry”.  So, perhaps Kenneth Gordon felt his role was being usurped by Malcolm Love?

His treatment at the congregational meeting at the end of May was deeply upsetting for Iain Marr, who was a sensitive man.  After the closure of the conclave, he said, plaintively, “Is this the Christian welcome one would expect having been attached to a congregation and having given so much time and effort over the years”?  He was not the only one to note that Christian charity was at times lacking during this protracted dispute.  Unsurprisingly, Dr Marr decided he could never return to St Devenick’s while Kenneth Gordon was in post.  He further remarked, ironically, following the rector’s unresponsiveness, that “we concluded that his (Malcolm Love’s) sins were having attracted too many young people into the church, having run the choir and subsidised its camps and tours without having asked the church for financial assistance”.

 

Malcolm Love’s character is called into question.

The decision by the vestry not to re-employ Dr Love was deplored by his many supporters, especially since it still gave no reason for his removal from office, or the reasons for not reinstating him.  Clearly, Canon Gordon felt no obligation to be open about the actions of the vestry, in effect actions which likely were proposed by him personally.  The canon was asserting that he was the incumbent in the parish, that he had the power to do as he pleased and without public justification.  However, he later wrote to the congregational parents of choir members, giving an assertion as to the decision, but without factual back-up.  Reinstatement of Dr Love would generate “alarm and disquiet” which might reverberate throughout the diocese and even spread to the whole of the Episcopal communion.  Further, re-employment “would not be in the best interests of St Devenick’s” and Canon Gordon did not believe that any assurance given by Malcolm Love in the future would be kept.

Such vague, but damning, generalisations caused much anger among Malcolm Love’s supporters.  Mrs Lindy Cheyne, the mother of three choir members, expressed herself forcefully.  “My blood boiled when I read the canon’s letter (dated 14 June 1983) in which he manages to portray a picture of injured innocence and which damages Dr Love’s name.  Dr Love is a man of total kindness and generosity and the things said about him could not be further from the truth”.  “The sad thing is that there were between 60 and 70 young people in the choir and many of them now don’t want to have anything to do with St Devenick’s”.

 

The choirs expand their musical programmes.

Meanwhile, aside from all the adult wrangling, the choirs got on with their practice and performance, largely unaware of the implications of the events they were witnessing but not fully understanding.  On 25 June 1983, the Deeside Choristers and the St Cecilia Choir mounted a concert in the theatre at the Deeside Community Centre, Aboyne, which included a performance of “Above him stood the seraphim” by the Tudor composer Richard Dering (1580 – 1630).  The treble soloists were Andrew Fox, Deputy Head Chorister and son of the author of this story, and Marcus Marr, son of Dr Iain Marr.  Further, the choirs had a full programme of performances booked through to Christmas.  However, being cut off from St Devenick’s church had immediately exposed the choirs to a new set of practical problems.  They now lacked robes in which to perform, the St Devenick’s-owned robes having been returned.  During their summer tour in the North of England they had worn borrowed garments, but that could not continue. A new set of robes would cost about £3,000.  Later, through the good offices of a supportive vestry, the Deeside Choristers were allowed to borrow the St Devenick’s robes.  Although a substantial amount of money had been raised during their existence at the choir of the Bieldside church, they no longer had access to those funds.  They also lacked a convenient practice venue, but that problem was overcome by the Loves throwing open the doors of their house, East Silverburn, to the boys and girls, although the conditions were a bit cramped.  Malcolm’s irrepressible optimism refused to be punctured.  In August 1983 he sought to recruit three new boy choristers aged eight to ten.  “They would be joining the finest youth club they have ever dreamed of”, he said.  His personal motto could well have been “Where there’s a will, there’s a way”.

 

Congregational meeting November 1983.

The congregation of St Devenick’s met annually in late November to elect members to the vestry.  The 1982 meeting took place before the furore over Malcolm Love’s sacking broke.  Thus the 1983 meeting was sure to be dominated by this divisive affair which had consumed so much time and energy in the intervening year and led to deeply entrenched positions being adopted.  Perhaps diplomatically, Canon Kenneth Gordon was away in Edinburgh on that day.  The continuing support for the displaced choirmaster was clear when there was a motion presented calling for the existing vestry to resign en masse and eight of Malcolm’s supporters were subsequently elected to the newly constituted vestry.  The optimists hoped that this shift of loyalties would enhance the chances of a mutually acceptable solution to the dispute, but they were to be disappointed.

 

A forced apology from the Reverend Gordon.

As a result of receiving the letter of 14 June 1983 from Canon Gordon, Malcolm Love took professional advice, and his legal representatives communicated with the church accusing that body of defaming their client.  This caused Canon Gordon to write to the 230 members of his church making an apology concerning Malcolm Love.  “I regret if any members of the congregation have construed any part of the letter of 14th June as an attack on the character or integrity of Dr Love.  No such attack was intended.  I apologise to Dr Love if any part of the letter caused him distress and for any harm that may have been occasioned to his reputation.  I wish to repeat that the healing of relationships requires time and patience and that it is my sincere wish that there be no continuing dispute between myself and Dr Love”.  But therein lay the basis of Canon Gordon’s strategy, delay and obfuscation.  Malcolm Love remained sacked and there was no hint of when, or even if, he might be reinstated.  When asked for his comments, Canon Gordon would only say that the matter was now closed.  Clearly, there could be no reconciliation without capitulation as far as he was concerned.      

Malcolm Love was relieved that his character had been vindicated.  “Life has been made very difficult for us this past year.  But choir members and parents, many members of our congregation and the clergy from several churches have given us support and understanding when we most needed it.  Now that my name has at last been cleared, I hope they will feel that their trust was justified and offer my warmest thanks”.  One of the local Episcopal churches which had been most steadfast in its support of the former St Devenick’s choirmaster had been St John’s Church in Crown Terrace in the centre of Aberdeen and in May 1984, there was a recital of Devotional Music by the Deeside Choristers at this venue.  Iain Marr got on with planning the programme of activities for the St Cecilia Choir, which included a visit to Denmark between 4 and 13 August 1984, followed by a reciprocal visit by a Danish girls’ choir to Aberdeen.

 

The stalemate continues.

By August 1984 there had been no forward movement in the dispute and its resolution seemed as far away as ever.  The frustration engendered by this seeming impasse caused four of the supporters of Dr Love to write an open letter to the diocesan bishop, Fred Darwent, urging him to raise the matter at the General Synod, a sort of parliament for the whole of the Episcopal church, which opened on 1 September in Perth.  The authors of the letter were PJ Sambrook Gower, Dr Iain Marr, Brenda Parsons and Mary Robertson and in their open letter they claimed that all attempts to achieve a reconciliation had been thwarted.  One newspaper report, which appeared in the Scotsman, on the content of this letter ran under the title, ““Church action group tries to have rector removed”.  This brought forth an objection from the authors that the statement was untrue and that the only way a clergyman could be unseated was for an accusation to be made and sustained.  They had not taken such action and would not do so.

However, Bishop Darwent declined the request to have the letter discussed at Synod.  Fred Darwent’s softly, softly, behind the scenes approach, where he seemed to be sitting on the fence with one foot on either side, gently leaning one way then the other, had achieved precisely nothing.  Perhaps initially he thought he could engineer a compromise, but he either could not, or perhaps even would not, lean on the intransigent Kenneth Gordon to offer some measure of accommodation with Malcolm Love.  It is even possible that the then status quo was what Darwent eventually backed as the least bad option.  That way, the choir survived with Malcolm in charge, it would be welcomed to perform at other Episcopal churches within his bishopric and he did not need to pressure the recalcitrant Kenneth Gordon, thus risking a further split in the Bieldside congregation.  Eventually hostile feelings on both sides might die down, the confrontations and harsh words of the past would gradually be forgotten, and calm should eventually return to the Bieldside congregation.

 

Congregational meeting 1984.

The annual meeting of the St Devenick’s congregation was held, as usual, at the end of November 1984 when a motion to establish a working party representing the diverse views of the congregation on Dr Love and the choirs was passed by a vote of 42 to 17.  This was the next initiative whose aim was to find a compromise acceptable to all sides.  However, for some reason which has not been uncovered, this working party never functioned, and the well-meaning initiative was still-born.

 

Another apology to Dr Love, but not from Kenneth Gordon.

The reinstatement of Malcolm Love’s reputation, if not his position as choirmaster at St Devenick’s church, was further enhanced when he received a letter of apology from the vestry, as constituted in March 1985, ie one still dominated by his supporters.  The missive was addressed to both Malcolm and his son, Ian.  It stated that there had been no allegation of wrongdoing and no real reason for his dismissal and that Love had suffered injustice at the hands of vestry in March and May 1983.  He had specifically been accused of taking actions which were inconsistent with his responsibilities as choirmaster, of breaking the terms of his contract, that he had pursued a campaign against the rector, curate and wardens which might have forced the resignation of the rector and that he had used his son’s name to write to members of the congregation in spite of the bishop asking him not to do so.  All these claims were withdrawn.  Malcolm Love was both delighted and relieved to receive this apology, though he realised that the actions had not been those of the present vestry.  Ominously, Canon Gordon dissociated himself from the letter.  He was immovable on reinstatement, having previously indicated that the Deeside Choristers “could not in any way have a place in the life and worship of St Devenick’s”, though individuals were still welcome to worship at the church.

 

A successful appeal to the Episcopal Synod.

Most problems in life do not spontaneously resolve themselves.  Instead, if left to fester they tend to return and bite someone on the bum.  This was the case with the imbroglio surrounding the dismissal of Dr Love and the forced dissolution of the St Devenick’s choir.  Malcolm Love’s supporters were not prepared to give up the fight but instead formed themselves into the St Devenick’s Action Group for reform and reconciliation.  There were about 20 active members in this informal association with George Patterson, a lecturer in jurisprudence at Aberdeen University and a Cults resident in the chair.  Their main beef was that Canon Gordon had not taken account of the views of the congregation before instituting changes to the form of worship and to other reforms.  The vestry also still contained a substantial number of Malcolm Love’s supporters and it, too, was still being thwarted by Canon Gordon.  It had tried to gain access to the register of baptised members and adherents at St Devenicks, but Gordon refused that request citing confidentiality as his reason.  An appeal was made to Bishop Darwent, but he supported the rector’s position.  The vestry then took the matter to a higher level and made a further appeal to the Episcopal Synod, who again supported the decision of the rector and imposed a charge of £300 in costs on the vestry, which, in turn, refused to cough up the cash!  As usual, when asked, Canon Gordon declined to comment but his wife Jessica could not resist a revealing remark.  She said that the people making “the noise and the headlines” were rarely attenders at worship in St Devenick’s.

 

Reconciliation abandoned.

By late 1985, it was generally accepted by Malcolm Love’s supporters that their hopes of reconciliation had been dashed and the Deeside Choristers and the St Cecilia Choir would have to continue independently and without the support of their local Episcopal church, though Bishop Fred Darwent had become a patron of the Deeside Choristers.  In the two years which had passed since the fracture, both choirs had gone from strength to strength.  Numbers were up, the standard of singing, in Malcolm’s opinion, had also improved.  The programme of activities was still expanding, and the choirs were booked for months into the future.  In summer 1985 they had sung choral evensong in York Minster, surely a true mark of their artistry.  In late September, the 63-strong male choir and the 20-strong girls’ choir performed, in unison, a concert of works by Monteverdi, Palestrina, Handel and other composers in St John’s, Crown Terrace, Aberdeen, the church which had stood by them consistently in their time of need.  Indeed, St John’s became the church of choice for worship by many of the refugees from St Devenick’s.


Saint John's Crown Terrace, Aberdeen.

In the autumn of 1985, a decadal anniversary edition of “Ruff Stuff” was produced.  In it Malcolm Love took the opportunity to review the progress that had been made since the choir’s foundation in 1975 and also the achievements secured since the schism of March 1983.  Progress had been impressive.  Although in the first two months after the parting, there were no public appearances by the choristers, that situation soon resolved itself.  In the year to the end of February 1984, the Byrd Choir fulfilled 16 engagements.  At the time membership was 64 men and boys.  In the following year, public appearances increased to 28 and in the first eight months of the succeeding period the number went up to 30.  Over the decade of its existence the choir had enjoyed the company of 116 trebles and 23 men. 

At the end of June 1986, Dr Iain Marr was forced to resign as the director of the girls’ choir due to pressure of work.  This faithful servant in the cause of church music on Deeside last appeared with the girls of St Cecilia’s on Sunday 23 June at Glenmuick church.  He had initiated the girls’ choir and been its director and conductor for eight years.  Malcolm Love, as ever the willing horse, stood in as a replacement for Iain on a temporary basis.

 

Another set-back for Kenneth Gordon.

Canon Kenneth Gordon’s high-handed behaviour did not ameliorate.  In late 1986, he imposed a voting ban on three members of the congregation at St Devenick’s, Mrs Kay Carmichael and Mr and Mrs Stephen Mills, all supporters of Malcolm Love, preventing them from participating in the annual meeting of communicants at which vestry representation was decided.  A close vote resulted in supporters of Canon Gordon being elected to the vestry.  This dubious manoeuvre had the taint of sharp practice about it.  The disenfranchised members did not take Rev Gordon’s decision lying down and appealed to Bishop Fred Darwent to rescind the verdict.  He confirmed Kenneth Gordon’s decision, which left the appellants only one course of action, to take a new appeal to the Synod of Bishops, the highest court in the Episcopalian Church, against the refusal of Bishop Fred to rescind Rev Gordon’s decision.  This appeal was backed by 24 members of the congregation, led by lawyer George Patterson, who presented their case at the Synod.  Canon Gordon too was legally represented at the hearing.  The appeal was sustained, which called into question the validity of elections made at the last annual meeting of communicants and the legitimacy of the composition of the resulting vestry.  It must also have been a considerable embarrassment to both Fred Darwent and Kenneth Gordon, though the latter’s steely carapace remained in place.  When asked to comment on the result of the appeal, he simply said that the matter was now settled, and he hoped everyone would now work together for the good of their church.  There was no mention of re-running the vote, so he retained control of the vestry for the coming year.

 

The dispute over choir funds re-emerges.

During 1987, the thorny question of the choir fund returned to prominence.  This money had largely been raised by Malcolm Love while he was still choirmaster at St Devenicks and included a dominant donation from his own resources.  In the interim, the money had been held in trust by the diocese, but legal advice confirmed the formal position that the fund belonged to St Devenick’s church, and it was duly transferred to that body.  At that time, it contained about £8,000.  A meeting of the congregation was held, as usual, in late 1987 when there was a substantial debate about the use of the choir fund.  After the removal of Malcolm Love in 1983, a new musical director had been appointed at the Bieldside church, but she resigned in February 1987, though she did not demit her position until June.  There had been no replacement appointed and so St Devenick’s choir had for the present ceased to exist.  This caused questions to be raised about the expenditure of £649 from the choir fund during the past year.  While accepting the legal position, that the monies in the choir fund belonged to St Devenick’s there were concerns expressed by attendees about the morality of holding on to the money and denying the Deeside Choristers access to its benefits.  Bishop Fred Darwent, in usual compromise mode, seeking to support both sides and satisfying neither, took the position that part of the money should go to the Deeside Choristers.  A motion, proposed by Ian Nicholson, was put to the meeting and it was passed by a voting ratio of 2:1.  It declared that morally the money belonged to the Deeside Choristers.  But how could the legal impediment to such transfer be overcome?  Malcolm Love, still a communicant at St Devenick’s, was present at the meeting and he remarked, “I raised more than half the money myself.  It seems immoral to me that money is now being spent from the fund, but there is no choir.  The legal obstacle could be overcome if Canon Gordon declared that the Deeside Choristers had a connection with St Devenick’s”.  Canon Gordon had previously refused to undertake this action.  When he was asked what his view was on the moral ownership of the fund, he replied that “he had no view which he wished to publish at all”.  Why was he being so secretive about such an important question?  His obfuscation raises the suspicion that his position would not have been popular with many in his congregation, whose views on the moral question had been openly declared.

Utter frustration with the intransigence of Kenneth Gordon caused three members of the St Devenick’s congregation, Edwina Clark, Brenda Parsons and George Patterson, all supporters of the Deeside Choristers, to write a letter (published on 11 December 1987) to the Aberdeen Evening Express, exposing the legal problem with transferring the fund to the choir and pointing out the very simple action that the rector could take to effect a remedy.  They did not spare Kenneth Gordon’s blushes, if he ever had any, when they wrote, “…and (in spite of the views of his bishop and the congregation) Canon Gordon has set his face against any form of reconciliation with the choristers.  Hence the legal obstacles”.  This letter essentially marked the end of the campaign to assert the moral right to some of the money raised on its behalf and for the reintegration of the Deeside Choristers with the church that, through the drive of Dr Malcolm Love with his supporters, had created one of the most successful church choirs that Scotland had ever seen.  It can only be counted as a tragedy for St Devenick’s church, Bieldside.

 

The music programme expands.

The programmes of music undertaken by the two choirs went on as before, adding new venues, such as the magnificent Salvation Army Citadel in Aberdeen, the St Margaret of Scotland Episcopal church in Braemar, Cults Academy, the place of education of most of the choristers, the Phoenix Hall in the Camphill Community at Newton Dee, the chapel at Blairs College after it ceased to be a Catholic seminary in 1986 and where an annual service of lessons and carols was held for many years, the Denburn church in Aberdeen, the Church of the Holy Rude in Stirling, and many others to its singing locations.  The range of musical offerings also expanded into such productions and works as the “Dracula Spectacular” described in the Press and Journal as “an outrageous send-up of horror movies” and the works of modern composers such as Benjamin Brittan and John Rutter.  Overseas visits also occurred from time to time, such as the visit to Clermont Ferrand in France, a twin city of Aberdeen, in 1992.




Salvation Army Citadel, Aberdeen.  Blairs College, Maryculter.

But there was one familiar venue amongst the many in and around Aberdeen to which, as far as I can determine, the Deeside Choristers never returned.  The Episcopal Church of St Devenick, Bieldside.

 

St John’s Church, Crown Terrace, Aberdeen.

It has already been noted that St John’s Episcopal Church in the centre of Aberdeen had made itself a steadfast friend of the Deeside Choristers.  They reciprocated by appearing at St John’s on many occasions and that pattern continued even after the death of Malcolm Love and the retirement of Kenneth Gordon.  Canon Archie Allan of St John’s became chaplain to the choir and also assisted at some concerts performed by the Choristers at venues outside the city.  For individuals previously associated with St Devenick’s and its choir, St John’s became their default place of worship or commemoration in good times and bad.  In September 1987, there was a tragic car accident on the North Deeside Road just west of Ballater.  Four people were killed, including Steve Knowles, a computer scientist working for Aberdeen University, and his wife, Sue.  They had previously been members of the St Devenick’s congregation and one of their sons was a member of the Deeside Choristers.  The service of thanksgiving for their lives was held at St John’s.  I attended that service and found it a very sombre and moving occasion.  Similarly, when Malcolm Love died in 2006, his funeral service took pace at St John’s, too.  Even in death, there was no reconciliation with St Devenick’s.    

Malcolm Love retires.

In 1987, Malcolm Love reached the age of 60, still the musical director and active conductor of the Deeside Choristers.  But the march of time spares no one.  Malcolm continued conducting until at least the end of 1999.  Perhaps the turn of the millennium was a signal landmark in time for Malcolm to retire from the choir he had nurtured for the previous 25 years.  By 1990, Neil Cathmore was frequently engaged to play the organ at services involving the choirs and he also started to conduct the boys’ and girls’ choirs, a role shared with Malcolm Love.  He later assumed the baton when Malcolm stepped down.

 

Life goes on for the Deeside Choristers – but not forever.

In 2009, the Deeside Choristers were still continuing to perform at about the same level of intensity as in Malcolm Love’s heyday.  In that year, Neil Cathmore described the choir as follows.  “We are an enthusiastic, friendly choir of over fifty girls, boys and men. Now in our 35th year, we have broadcast, recorded, sung in many of the great cathedrals, and toured abroad. Our mission is to teach children to sing from a musical score, to enable them to learn, appreciate and enjoy choral music of the great masters and to perform with modesty and dignity”.  Clearly, by this date, the St Cecilia Choir had been amalgamated with the boys’ choir, perhaps a pragmatic decision to dispense with two conductors,two separate sets of rehearsals and programmes and, perhaps also, to accommodate declining participation.

In 2014, the MBC (Milltimber, Bieldside and Cults) News reported on the Deeside Choristers as follows.  “The Deeside Choristers would like to wish all readers of the MBC News a Happy Easter. Some eight years since the death of its founder, Dr. Malcolm Love, this local Soprano, Alto, Tenor and Bass (SATB) choir continues to flourish and inspire. Our last engagement was on Sunday, 30th March when we sang “Music at 6” at St. Machar’s and our next will be participating in the Diocesan Choral Festival at St. Andrew’s Cathedral on Sunday, 11th May. Rehearsals are every Wednesday during term-time, 6.15 to 8pm, in the Main Hall, Camphill, Murtle Estate, Bieldside. We would like to encourage all youngsters, (aged 7 and above) who are enthusiastic singers to consider joining our ranks, especially after the summer holidays. Experienced Tenors and Basses are also warmly welcome at any time”.

Sadly, by 2018, the Deeside Choristers had ceased to exist as an active choir and the “Deeside Choristers” registered charity is currently listed as “inactive”.  As far as I can determine, the choir has not been reactivated to the present (2023).

 

Why did the relationship between Kenneth Gordon and Malcolm Love break down?

Kenneth Gordon, when he arrived at St Devenick’s, apparently had an aspiration to make worship more informal, presumably because he believed that such a change in culture would be effective in retaining and enhancing the size of the congregation.  A small choir would not be an impediment to such a change and could play its part, perhaps by singing works which were not too long and not too highbrow.  At the time that Malcolm Love was recruited as the choirmaster he must have seemed an ideal candidate for the role, given his background and training.  Kenneth Gordon perhaps did not anticipate that the charismatic Malcolm Love would grow the choir both in its numbers and in its musical repertoire.  Both these aspects were problematic for the move to more informal worship.  Malcolm Love also commented later that during his period as choirmaster at St Devenick’s he noticed that more and more of the prayer book was being omitted from services and that only the modern English Bible was being employed. The success of the choir became an impediment to Kenneth Gordon’s plans for liturgical reform and he tried to exert his authority over Malcolm Love both in reducing the size of the choir and in diminishing its prominence in services.  But it was too late.  By late 1982, the choir had become so popular both within the church and outwith its confines that popular feelings resisted Kenneth Gordon’s modernising aspirations.  For him, the form of worship was dominant over the success of the choir, while for Malcolm Love, the development of the choir, singing a classical repertoire and taking part in traditional Anglican services, especially in the great cathedrals was what, as a committed Christian, drove him forward.  In this case, the success of the classical, ironically, stood in the way of modernisation!

The Spring 1981 edition of “Ruff Stuff”, the magazine of the St Devenick’s choirs, contains a contribution by Kenneth Gordon which seems to outline his concerns about the appropriateness of sophisticated high church music in worship in a small suburban church such as his.  His invited contribution started by offering “heartfelt thanks” to everyone concerned with the St Devenick’s choirs but did not mention any individual by name.  His contribution continued in an unusual form in that he simply quoted from the writings of others about the role and form of church music.  Thus, words of criticism with which he appeared to sympathise were not his own writings.  But he would hardly have included such pointed quotations if he had not meant to send a message to the choirs and especially the moving force behind them.  Two examples will suffice to make the point.  “Does scripture lay down any principles for the kind of music we should use in worship?  Certainly, the Old Testament holds up to us an ideal of musical excellence.  But it was an excellence that was meant to draw attention to the Lord rather than to itself, and to encourage rather than inhibit the congregation”.  “The choir is part of the whole people of God, and not some special hybrid group set apart from both clergy and congregation.  It is the servant of the congregation, leading and supporting the whole body … The music of worship is not the special preserve of a chosen few but the inheritance of all the people of God; it is the practical expression of the priesthood of all believers”.

Later in the same edition of “Ruff Stuff” there was surely entered a reply to the criticism I have attributed to Kenneth Gordon.  The author of this rejoinder was not identified but it is difficult to find anyone other than Malcolm Love as the leading suspect.  “In the late 1950s a Bishop said that poor music uttered with a sincere heart and voice was just as acceptable in God’s ears as the most finished performance of a Bach cantata; that God wasn’t a music critic, and that what music was performed in Church and the manner in which it was performed should not rest on the value judgements of trained musicians (you might ask “Why bother to employ them, then?”)  The writer went on with an even more mordant comment.  “Might one not say in reply that God isn’t necessarily tone deaf, and that he has endowed us with the faculty of taste?  Many of us would recoil from the thought of sending to someone we loved or respected a tawdry greetings card containing doggerel verse, yet it is precisely the musical equivalent of this which some are eager to inflict on congregations and suggest that the young should subsist only on such a diet”.  (author’s emphasis).

The incumbent at St Devenick’s was a determined and uncompromising man who clearly believed that he was in charge in his church and that his writ was law.  On the surface, Malcolm Love was amiable and affable but underneath this smiling exterior was an equally steely countenance unwilling to surrender the achievements of eight years’ hard work.  Given such opponents, a disassociation of the choir from St Devenick’s was probably inevitable, followed by a fracture in the coherence of the congregation.  Such a split might have been mended, ruffled feelings smoothed, and calm restored had different personalities been involved.  But Kenneth Gordon and his then supportive vestry felt their authority had been challenged and this hardened their approach.  Compromise to them might have appeared as weakness and loss of authority.  Malcolm Love might have been accommodated by taking his choir to other venues to sing the more highbrow and traditional compositions, while presenting a smaller choir at St Devenicks to satisfy the needs of Canon Gordon.  But such compromise could not be entertained by the incumbent.  Perhaps for him the matter had become personal, and he was determined not to work with Malcolm Love in the future.

Unfortunately, tactics were employed by both sides which inflamed the tensions.  Malcolm Love secretly recorded the proceedings of the meeting in late 1982 which presaged his dismissal as choirmaster and that riled the vestry and clergy.  They, on the other hand seemed to adopt the view that the end (removal of Malcolm Love) justified the means (fabricating justifications).  Accusations were made against the character and integrity of the ex-choirmaster which were baseless and later had to be withdrawn, leaving the emperor naked.

There were other issues, too, which grated with Kenneth Gordon and his loyalists, concerning the choir and they concerned the population from which the choir recruited its members.  During the 1970s and 1980s, Lower Deeside underwent a major expansion in housebuilding to accommodate the incomers attracted by the North Sea oil boom.  These incomers were mostly in senior and well-paid positions, many of them from furth of Scotland, and they were used to both thinking and acting for themselves.  They added to the existing middleclass population of the area, which was already well represented with professionals and academics.  Such a population was proud of the success of the St Devenick’s choir and happy to stand up to be counted in its defence.  Not all were regular churchgoers which led to the telling remark of Kenneth Gordon’s spouse about those making the most noise.  Allied to this irritation was another.  The wife of a prominent couple, who had been members of the congregation for many years, upbraided this author because the parents of some choristers did not attend church at all, and she expressed the view that the offspring of such people should not be in a church choir or singing religious music.  There is one further factor which may have been significant.  Kenneth Gordon was a strong supporter of Scottish Nationalism at a time when this political movement was in its infancy.  He would not have found many amongst the incomers who shared his aspirations for an independent Scotland, which perhaps bolstered his determination not to be pushed around by eloquent outsiders.

Most people in their journey through life will have experienced situations, often at work, where they observe two colleagues who simply cannot stand the sight of each other but could not clearly enunciate the reasons why this was so.  I saw such situations several times during my career, exemplified by one acquaintance who said of another “He lights my fuse”.  Perhaps Kenneth Gordon and Malcolm Love shared such an irrational mutual antagonism?

 

The death of Kenneth Gordon.

Malcolm Love’s nemesis, Kenneth Gordon, retired as rector of St Devenick’s in 2001, though in retirement he returned to Bieldside as Honorary Assistant Priest between 2010 and 2018.  He died in 2021, aged 86.  A eulogistic obituary of him was published online.  Its author, perhaps wishing not to speak ill of the dead, or perhaps through ignorance of events from 35 years ago, made no mention of the Deeside Choristers affair which impinged heavily on Kenneth Gordon’s life between 1982 and 1987.  The obituary summed up his character as follows.  “We will all miss Ken for his intelligent and incisive contributions to discussions and for his humanity and shining faith”.  His friends may remember him that way, but there were many on Deeside who saw him differently.

 

The death of Malcolm Love.  

Malcolm Love died, aged 79, on 16 April 2006 at his home of many years, East Silverburn, Kingswells.  The funeral notice, posted online, read as follows.  “LOVE.  R. Malcolm Love DSc, Fisheries Scientist, late of Torry Research Station, founder of the Deeside Choristers, died peacefully at home, on Easter Morning. Much loved husband of Muriel, loving father of Andrew, Ian and Timothy, proud grandpa to his ten grandchildren. Friends and colleagues are invited to the funeral at St. John's Church, Crown Terrace, Aberdeen, on Thursday, April 20, at 12.30 p.m., interment thereafter in Skene Cemetery”.

Although he is memorialised in Skene kirkyard, Malcolm Love’s true memorial lies partly in his published scientific work, but especially in the achievements of his magnificent but ephemeral creation, the Deeside Choristers.

Don Fox

20231230

donaldpfox@gmail.com 

Sunday, 29 October 2023

The Upton Park Obelisk, Old Alresford, Hampshire – who does it commemorate?

 

Introduction

The adjacent settlements of Old and New Alresford, lying respectively north and south of the River Alre in the South Downs six miles east of Winchester, contain many fine buildings of historical significance.  These two communities have a growing appeal to those seeking leisure pursuits, such as shopping, railway history, cycling and walking.  One particularly attractive pedestrian route starts at the parish church of St Mary the Virgin, Old Alresford, and proceeds east along Colden Lane.  A succession of grand old buildings immediately informs the wanderer that he, or she, is in a location which has been at the centre of wealth and influence in this part of Hampshire for several centuries.  Opposite the church lies Old Alresford Place, once the (rather large) vicarage but which has recently been employed by the Church of England as a conference and training venue.  Next along the lane on the right-hand side is found Old Alresford House, built by William Jones between 1749 and 1751 and once the family seat of Admiral George Brydges Rodney (1712 – 1792).  He had an outstanding naval career and, in the process, gained substantial wealth in prize money from the capture of enemy ships.  This building is located on the northern edge of Old Alresford Park, the creation of landscape specialist, Richard Woods, in 1764.   Further along Colden Lane is a separate property with its own mansion, Upton Park which was built for James, the brother of Lord Rodney, in 1768.  James Rodney’s focus was local and he was closely involved in the affairs of the village of Old Alresford.  Upton Park mansion house lies on the south side of the lane but is today obscured from the carriageway by trees.  What is clearly visible is the great thrashing barn (late 18th century / early 19th century) of Upton Park farm on the north side of Colden Lane.

St Mary the Virgin, Old Alresford

Old Alresford Place

Old Alresford House from the north

Great Barn, Upton Park farm

After Upton Park has been passed, the metalled road sweeps right eventually joining the Alresford to Bighton road, while Colden Lane, also known as the Oxdrove, continues east as an unmetalled track, rising steadily up the down to a height of over 400ft above sea level.  South of Colden Lane near the high point of the track there is a prominent, but not particularly tall, obelisk and the curious passer-by will inevitably wonder to whom this monument is dedicated.  Although there is no formal public access to the structure, it is likely that many pedestrians walk the few yards from the public right of way to the base of the monument to see if it sports a dedication.  However, unlike most memorials, this one does not obviously enlighten the casual visitor.  A panel in the base of the structure contains the given names of two ladies and their years of birth and death.  The bare details,“1953 CAMILLA 1988” and “1951 MELITA 2014” are placed one above the other and between them, in large capitals are the initials “MG”.  Who were they and what does “MG” signify?

Upton Park obelisk

Commemorative plaque



I live locally in New Alresford and I am a keen walker.  I have tramped the Oxdrove many times in the last ten years, but it is only recently that I have wondered about the identity of these two ladies.  An internet search produced one useful reference from a fellow pedestrian, “the Rambling Walker”, who in March 2015 passed this way and recorded his thoughts for posterity about the monument.  Like me he was puzzled about the identities of the two ladies and he suggested that the obelisk had been placed there so that it could be seen from Old Alresford House.  More importantly, he noted that the incised tablet had only been inserted recently, ie shortly before March 2015.  Reference to a 2023 photograph of the base of the obelisk shows clearly from the slowly growing lichens and other microorganisms that the tablet and the obelisk are not contemporaneous.  The obelisk is much older but, curiously, it does not appear on Ordnance Survey maps, even current ones, so map history cannot be used to date its construction.  It is surrounded by iron railings of some vintage, possibly the same age as the obelisk itself.  There is one further feature of note.  A double row of lime trees runs from near the obelisk in a westerly direction towards Old Alresford House, creating a most pleasing avenue.  This led the “Rambling Walker” to suggest that the obelisk was meant to be seen from that venue.  The age of the trees is not great, and an undated colour photograph has been unearthed showing the trees as young saplings.  It seems likely that both the inscribed tablet and the tree avenue date from about 2014, which was also the year of the demise of “Melita”.  One further speculation came early to my mind.  The obscurity of the ladies’ identities suggest that this monument is meant to be a private memorial with meaning only for the relatives of the two ladies.

Lime tree avenue looking east towards the obelisk


It was not difficult to uncover the identities of Camilla and Melita.  “Melita” is a very rare given name so, together with her dates of birth and death, standard genealogical techniques quickly revealed that she and her sister, Camilla, were daughters of Rear Admiral Morgan Charles Morgan-Giles, a man with an outstanding record of service in the Royal Navy, followed by a period of service in the House of Commons as the MP for Winchester.  He was also, at one time, the owner of Upton House and its attached farm and, on occasion, he described himself as a farmer.  The interpretation of the inscription on the obelisk thus became obvious, but the reason for the creation of the monument remained obscure.  An investigation of the family history of the Morgan-Giles lineage was the next step for me to take in my pursuit of enlightenment.

 

Morgan Charles Morgan-Giles (1914 – 2013)

Morgan Charles Morgan-Giles was the son of Francis Charles Morgan Giles, who was a prominent naval architect and boat-builder and received the OBE for his services to that profession.  The family name was originally “Giles”, but Francis Charles changed that to “Morgan Giles” and, at some time before WW2, his son added the hyphen.  Francis Charles’ first company was located in London with a boat-building yard on the Thames at Hammersmith.  One of his clients became his wife and in 1914 their first son, Morgan Charles, was born.  The boat building business was moved to Hythe on Southampton Water in 1911 and during WW1 Francis Charles served in the Royal Naval Volunteer Auxiliary Patrol Service.  In 1920 he left the service and recommenced his designing and boat-building activities at Teignmouth, Devon.

Thus, Morgan Charles Morgan-Giles was immersed in marine matters from early in life, due to his father’s professional activities, which gave the youngster a love of the sea.  He said that he could “row before he could walk” and subsequently became a skilled yachtsman.  In 1932 Morgan Charles joined the Royal Navy as a midshipman and in the period before the outbreak of WW2 he served in a number of RN vessels in the Far East, the West Indies and the Baltic before returning to HMS Vernon, the RN’s torpedo school based ashore in Portsmouth, in 1938.

During WW2, Morgan Charles Morgan-Giles saw active service in several theatres of war.  In Egypt he escaped from three crashes involving Wellington bombers, in one of which he was the sole survivor.  Later he served in the Far East (where he accepted the Japanese surrender of Thailand), North Africa, Italy and the Adriatic.  His exploits were recognised by several awards, including the MBE, the DSO, the George Medal and several mentions in dispatches.  Morgan Charles Morgan-Giles rose rapidly in the service.  At the end of the war and still only 31 he held the rank of Lieutenant-Commander and had gained a wealth of experience on active duties.  He remained in the Royal Navy with the return of peace and served in Ceylon, Hong Kong, South Africa, Trieste and England in the period to 1948.

Rear Admiral Sir Morgan Charles Morgan-Giles


While serving in Egypt, he met his future wife, Pamela Bushell (1919 – 1966), an Australian lady, the second daughter of Philip Howard Bushell (1879 – 1954).  Pamela was working in the land of the pyramids as a volunteer nurse.  Philip Howard Bushell had been born in Liverpool, the son of a tea merchant who subsequently emigrated to Australia in 1883 and set up business there.  His sons, including Philip, branched out on their own in the tea business and became commercially very successful.  When he died in 1954 Philip Bushell’s estate was valued at £666,695.  His wife died five years later, and she left £2,558,921.  Daughter Pamela was one of the main beneficiaries of her mother’s estate.  During her early life she travelled extensively with her parents and later qualified as a aircraft pilot. 

Morgan Charles and Pamela were married on 11 May 1946 in Australia while he was on leave from his navy job.  “Truth”, published in Sydney reported glowingly on the bride’s appearance.  “Mrs Morgan-Giles, who until last Saturday was popular Pam Bushell, made one of the loveliest brides of the season.  Her magnolia-figured brocade wedding gown and halo of white roses were an inspiration”.  The couple then left for Hong Kong where Morgan-Giles was stationed.  This was the start of a “pack and follow” pattern of life which, despite the couple producing six children between 1947 and 1959, continued throughout his remaining service in the Royal Navy, which ended in 1964.  Pamela had the same can-do attitude to life as her husband and was unfazed by frequent removals to new accommodation and the associated air travel, usually in the company of her young brood, as she followed her husband around the world.  The dates and places of birth of the Morgan-Giles children illustrate the peripatetic life of this remarkable couple.  Penelope Dolce, 1947, Cape Town; Philip Francis Prosper, 1949, Trieste; Melita Amaryllis Pamela Astrid, 1951, Malta; Felicity Camilla Serena Octavia, 1953, London; Rodney Charles Howard, 1955, Singapore; Alexandra L. M., 1959, Surrey.

Lieutenant Commander Morgan Giles and his wife, Pamela in 1946

Pamela Morgan-Giles


Australia in the 1940s, 1950s and 1960s, despite its present egalitarian image, had an upper-crust social scene, involving those with aristocratic credentials imported from the Old Country, the families of senior military figures and the families of new money in this emerging land of opportunity.  The social doings of this set were reported regularly in the Australian press and there were even specialist publications dedicated to that purpose, such as “Truth” and “Australian Women’s Weekly”.  News of the wealthy, former Pamela Bushell and her high-flying husband were regularly featured.  A typical example follows, taken from the Sydney Morning Herald of 14 February 1951.  On a flying visit from Malta after an absence of five years abroad, Mrs Morgan Morgan-Giles, formerly well-known Sydney girl Miss Pamela Bushell, returned to Sydney by air yesterday with her three children.  Mrs Morgan-Giles and her children Penelope, Philip and Melita, will spend two months’ holiday with her parents, Mr and Mrs Philip Bushell, of Carthona, Darling Point.  Since her marriage in Sydney in 1946, Mrs Morgan-Giles has travelled with her husband Commander Morgan-Giles, RN, to Ceylon, India, South Africa, England, France, Italy and Trieste.  They are now living at Malta, where Commander Morgan Giles is stationed with the RN”.  Debutante dances and upper-class weddings were particularly popular fare for inclusion in these society publications.  In England, “Tatler” peddled similar fare and the Morgan-Giles family were regulars in this publication too.

The naval career of Morgan Charles Morgan-Giles continued its upward path in peacetime.  In 1953, he was awarded the Order of the Partisan Star by President Tito of Yugoslavia for his wartime exploits in that country.  At this time, he was stationed at HMS Hornet, a shore establishment at Gosport, where he remained until late the following year.  He was then posted to Singapore as Chief of Naval Intelligence, a post he fulfilled until 1956.    In 1957 he became captain of the Dartmouth training squadron, which consisted of three frigates and the following year he moved as Captain to HMS Vernon, then the Navy’s minesweeper base in Portsmouth.  The highlight of Morgan Charles Morgan-Giles’ post-war naval career came in 1961 when he was given command of HMS Belfast, a light cruiser which had fired the first shot in the sinking of the German pocket battleship “Scharnhorst” during WW2, and, at that time, the flagship of the Navy’s Far East fleet.  In September 1961, the Belfast paid a visit to Sydney, having previously called in Japan, giving Captain Morgan-Giles an opportunity to organise a formal dance on the vessel for the movers and shakers of the New South Wales capital, including the Governor-General of Australia, Lord De L’isle and his family.  The Australian press also reported that Pamela Morgan-Giles “has been a charming hostess at a whirl of parties since the arrival of HMS Belfast”.  This ten-day sojourn was followed by a courtesy call at San Francisco.  HMS Belfast finally arrived back in Portsmouth in October 1962.  Morgan Charles Morgan-Giles then received his final promotion, to Rear Admiral.  His terminal naval appointment was as President of the Royal Naval College at Greenwich.

Demitting command in 1962 was not the end of Rear Admiral Morgan-Giles’ association with the cruiser HMS Belfast.  In 1971 he became aware that it was planned to scrap his cherished former command.  In typical Morgan-Giles style, he initiated “Operation Sea Horse”, whose objective was to raise money to preserve this historically significant vessel by transforming her into a museum.  He became chairman of the HMS Belfast Trust and, with the help of many others, he was successful in raising the £200,000 required.  There was some scepticism expressed as to whether this venture would be financially viable but in 1972, Rear Admiral Morgan-Giles commented that if Belfast didn’t pay her way she would be “razor blades and saucepan lids by now”.  In 1978 the Belfast became part of the Imperial War Museum and is now permanently moored on the Thames close to Tower Bridge.

HMS Belfast

          

By mid-1955, the Morgan-Gileses had acquired Wonersh House, which stood in 35 acres of land on the outskirts of the attractive village of Wonersh, near Guildford, Surrey, as an English base.  Here they soon suffered a burglary when jewellery and a mink coat collectively valued at £5,000 were stolen.  The extensive gardens around the house were occasionally opened to the public for charitable purposes.  The Morgan-Gileses also established a base in Sydney, “Beach Manor”, which was adjacent to Pamela’s parents’ home, “Carthona”.  Pamela Morgan-Giles’ father died in 1954 and her mother, Dolce Myrtle, departed five years later.  Mrs Morgan-Giles and her sister were the main beneficiaries of the substantial maternal estate.   On the retirement of Rear Admiral Morgan-Giles from the navy, he and his wife clearly felt the need for a new English home.   Upton Park, Old Alresford, a 528-acre agricultural estate had been in the ownership of Rodney Mathias Berry, third son of the first Viscount Camrose.  Berry died in 1962 and the estate was eventually put on the market.  Mrs Pamela Morgan-Giles bought the property in late 1963.  Wonersh House was then sold.

When Rear Admiral Morgan-Giles left the navy in 1964, his children ranged in age from 17 (Penelope) to 5 (Alexandra).  Melita was 13 and her sister Camilla was 11.  They were growing up to a life in which their parents moved in elevated circles and the friends of the children inevitable came from a similar background.  Thus, they graduated to this familiar lifestyle themselves and over the next few years they too started to feature in the press, making appearances at society weddings, dances and other events.  As early as 1953, Penelope was a bridal attendant at a wedding in Gosport and in 1959 she was a bridesmaid at the wedding of the Hon. Elizabeth Sophie Sidney, daughter of the former Governor General of Australia, Lord De L’isle.  The Tatler reported in 1960 that she had attended a ball at Somerhill in Kent.  In 1967, the Morgan-Giles daughters were well represented at the marriage, in England, of Lieutenant David Harries of the Royal Australian Navy, son of a Rear Admiral.  Attendants on the bride included Melita, Camilla and Alexandra, with Hon Lucy Sidney (another daughter of Lord De L’isle), Una Downer (Daughter of the then Australian High Commissioner) and Alexandra Legge-Bourke (“Tiggy”).

From R, Melita and Camilla Morgan-Giles at wedding of Lieutenant David Harries 1967


With the social background of their parents, it was near-inevitable that the four Morgan-Giles girls would find marriage partners from the same milieu.  Penelope married Nigel JF Cartwright in 1968, though his family circumstances have not, so far, been elucidated.  Melita married Victor Miles George Aldous Lampson, 3rd Baron Killearn, thus becoming Lady Killearn herself, in 1971.  Victor Lampson was a captain in the Scots Guards before assuming a partnership in Cazenove & Co, the investment banking company.  Camilla became the wife of John Drake, the older son of Sir Eric Drake and his second wife Margaret, in 1976.  Sir Eric, a prominent businessman and apparently a very forceful character, was the fifth chairman of BP.  In retirement he lived at the Old Rectory, Old Alresford and was thus a neighbour of the Morgan-Gileses at Upton House.   The youngest girl, Alexandra, also contracted a prominent marriage to Edward Thomas Bolitho, a scion of an old Cornish family, in 1979.  He was educated at Eton College, Pembroke College, Cambridge University and served in the Grenadier Guards, being in command of the 1st Battalion between 1993 and 1995.  Subsequently, he was appointed as the Lord Lieutenant for Cornwall.     

After an incident-packed, 32-year, naval career, both in war and in peace, it would have been impossible for Rear Admiral Morgan-Giles simply to retreat from active life.  Instead, he put himself forward and was selected as the Conservative candidate for the parliamentary constituency of Winchester.  He was successful in being elected at a by-election held in May 1964, though the Tory majority was halved.  Morgan-Giles then acquired a property in Pimlico to support his parliamentary activities.  However, after spending so long in the Senior Service, his approach to political issues tended to be direct, uncompromising, sometimes tactless and of a right-wing character.  In 1967 he antagonised the political left wing by calling for British troops to be sent to Viet Nam.  His Labour opponents would taunt him in the House will comments such as “Send a gunboat”.   Perhaps his most famous Parliamentary quip related to the pay of WRENS.  "Wrens only get 3d a day for good conduct That is not much to give a girl for saying “Yes, Sir” all day and “No, Sir” all night". Morgan Charles Morgan-Giles looked upon Parliamentary service as being a retirement occupation and he was never seriously considered for ministerial office, though for ten years from 1965 he did serve as vice-chairman of the Conservative back-bench Defence Committee.  Unsurprisingly, he was a staunch defender of the interests of both the military and his constituency.  He left the House of Commons in 1979 and was knighted in 1984 for political service.

Pamela Morgan-Giles, the Rear-Admiral’s wife died at Upton House in 1966 at the rather early age of 46.  The year 1975 saw Morgan Charles Morgan-Giles suffer a serious riding accident in which he broke his left leg, several ribs and his right shoulder but, after a period of convalescence in Tenerife, he recovered.  He died in 2013, have achieved the remarkable span of 98 years.  Morgan-Giles senior was pre-deceased by two of his children, son Philip, who had emigrated to Australia and died there in 1998 at the age of 49, and Camilla who departed this life in 1988, aged 35.  Melita barely outlived her father, dying the year after his passing, as the obelisk records, at the age of 61.  The present status of Penelope and Alexandra has not so far been uncovered, but son Rodney is (2023) the incumbent at Upton House.

 

Conclusions and remaining questions

Returning to the purpose of this investigation, the identities of the two women, Camilla and Melita, memorialised on the Upton Park obelisk and a brief summary of their lives, has clearly been uncovered, mainly through the achievements and activities of their parents.  But many questions still remain unanswered. 

Who was the instigator, what was the original purpose and when was the obelisk built?

Does the lime tree avenue lead, not in the direction of Old Alresford House, as the “Rambling Walker” surmised, but towards Upton Park House?

Who initiated the project to add the tablet to the obelisk?  Why were only these two daughters, out of the six Morgan-Giles children, commemorated?  It seems that the death of Melita was the event that triggered the decision to adapt the obelisk to a new purpose, but why add in only the name of her younger sister?  While Camilla died at a tragically early age, her brother Philip also died young.  And what of their mother, Pamela?  She only reached 46.  And what of the Rear Admiral?  His life achievements, especially during his naval service, were the events which contributed most to the historical status of the Morgan-Gies clan?

Perhaps someone out there can help to answer these puzzles?


Don Fox

20231029

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